Im a female having trouble with having orgasms... i've never had one before and i really want to expierence having one. what's wrong with me?

Probably nothing: Many women have trouble learning how to experience orgasm. Many don't even recognize it when they do. Stay calm and don't feel abnormal - it's very common. You can learn more on your own if you feel comfortable exploring yourself with a mirror and lubricant. There is info online or at libraries or women's clinics and Dr's offices. Gently play w/ your fingers to find and stroke your clitoris.Best!