When i orgasm i release urine. due to this ive ruined my brand new mattress and it is horrible. i cant yet afford a new one. what can be the cause of this and how can i prevent it? i even pee before sex. this is a female in early 20s

Sex health expert?: I don't have an answer to the problem, but you should see a urologist -- or perhaps even better, a sexual health specialist (which should be easy since you're apparently in the country's largest metropolitan area). But I can assure you that this is not abnormal, except maybe in the amount of urine. Female "ejaculation" is generally believed to be a squirt of urine.

Agree with Dr, H: There is nothing wrong with you. Keep a towel or two under your butt during sex.