Light spotting pink/red in the vagina after a bm in early pregnancy. is this notmal? is everything okay?

Really cannot say: Without an actual examination, I cannot give specific medical advice on your particular health; certainly the possibility of hemorrhoids comes to mind. There's a huge number of regular things that can cause spotting outside of pregnancy--std is the bad ones http://www.nerdpocalypse.net/diseases/spotting%20between%20periods.html but there's pregnancy specific ones too, Placenta PRevia or accreta