Bled lightly for 3dys after fingered rough, had sex weeks before with a condom bt i don't know if it had a lil hole cud that have been implantation bleeding?

Possible: Bleeding from rough fingering can be normal- just irritated from the friction, or pressure on the cervix. Anytime you have unprotected sex, there is a possibility of pregnancy. Condoms are not a perfect birth control (only ~85% effective). Always use condoms for std protection and another effective birth control method when you have sex, if being a parent is not something you want at this time!