I can't stand how people yell at me or tell me what to do when they have made more mistakes than i have. 16?

Check yourself: That's a bit arrogant & immature. Do you think people are perfect? Everyone makes mistakes. But you learn from them and educate others you care about to not make the same ones. If you don't want to listen, that's your choice. But don't blame or get mad at others. Grow up! you're 16 already.

Talk to someone: You are at a rough time in life. Hormones running crazy, wanting to be an adult, but not quite ready. In your mind everyone is treating you like you're a baby and you don't deserve it. We've all been there. It's part of being 16 years old. Find someone to talk to - an adult who can help you find ways to work through your frustration & anger: teacher, parent, aunt/uncle, someone you trust.