Its painful to have sex, what to do?

Dyspareunia: Pain during sex is not normal unless the sexual activity is particularly violent. Often there may be anatomic deviations producing this, such as prolapsed ovaries, tilted uterus, narrowed vagina for several reasons, cervical inflammation, and so on. You should be seen and carefully evaluated by a gynecologist and do not give up until this issue has been resolved. Good luck.