Is it normal for my wife to say she doesn't feel like she loves me anymore and to want me to move out? i mean she is so cold blooded all the sudden.

Mental Health: I am sorry to here of your troubles. This question, as I am sure you can understand is outside of the boundaries of what we can answer here. There is no way to say what your wife is doing is 'normal'. It is what it is. The best thing we can recommend here is that you very well may need to see a therapist to deal with your grieving the loss of this relationship.