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My daughter cries when i drop her off at daycare. how do i know if she doesnt like it?

3 doctors weighed in across 2 answers

Common issue: Before 6m infants often adapt to daycare easier because the find people interesting. By 6-15m they realize their primary caregiver is special & have increased separation issues anytime mom tries to go out of sight. Over time she can adapt & learn to view the daycare personnel as trustworthy. It is OK if she cries when you leave her & important that you keep up a predictable pattern.

Answered 9/28/2016

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Dr. Johanna Fricke answered

Specializes in Pediatrics - Developmental and Behavioral

If you look upset: when you leave her, it will increase her separation anxiety. Ask that the same caretaker meet you daily with a preferred toy. After a quick good-bye, leave calmly. Ask the director to video her behavior 10-15 minutes after you leave. If she cries for over an hour or has physical signs of mistreatment, that's a different story.

Answered 6/15/2014

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