Okay so i got...fingered and ever since then i got to go pee all the time and it burns. is this normal after getting fingered? how long does it last?

Common: Cistitis commonly present with symptoms like the ones you describe. You should consult your dr., a course of antibiotics may take care of it in some cases. Also remember that hygiene is very important, and also excessive hygiene (soap) in deep areas of the vulva/ introitus may disbalance the normal protective flora, making infections more common.

Bladder infection: It sounds as though you acquired a bladder infection as a result of being digitally penetrated. You need to see your primary care provider and get a urinalysis, and then possibly an antibiotic based on the results of the test.