Had covid at 9 weeks pregnant. now 32 weeks. have been reading terrifying studies about this causing autism esp in boys (what im having) what do you think as doctors?

There is no definitive data as yet- studies are ongoing. It is unlikely that it would affect every child - if that happened we would know by now. Note there are many unknown causes of autism I would not worry but just enjoy the pregnancy love the child. https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/cases-updates/special-populations/pregnancy-data-on-covid-19/what-cdc-is-doing.html

If your pregnancy is otherwise healthy, try not to worry. Follow up with your OB and maintain a healthy lifestyle. Discuss maternal vaccinations which help to protect your infant.