My psychiatrist and gynecologist suggested i go for a high risk pregnancy extermination and i've got major depression my days are getting close and still can't find a specialist?

Referral: Extermination or examination? Those are two very different things. Pregnancies are not usually terminated because the mother is depressed. I agree with Dr. Ferguson, that you should contact your health insurance company to find out who is in their referral network. You would need to clarify what it is that you actually want, since it is not clear from your post.