I've been overly obsessed with my husband. i hat being away from him, makes my stomach turn. we've been together 12 years and married for 7 years. i want more from him that he is willing to give me emotionally and i think i'm pushing him away?

Maritial issues: No one likes to feel controlled or micro-managed so there is a possibility that you are unintentionally pushing him away. The goal is to be interdependent, not codependent. Please consult a couples therapist or prudent spiritual leader. A book called "Codependent no More" by Melody Beattie may be helpful. Peace and good health.