What is the best shoe for high arches and wide feet? i have trouble finding shoes that provide the right fit and support.

Depends: This depends on the type of shoe and I cannot give specific recommendations, but you should feel that you have good support, and that you are not having any pain in the arch area. You can also get some inserts for sneakers and loafer type shoes.

Not on a shelf : Shoes today are mass produced for the average foot shape. When your foot deviates from this norm, the simplest solution is to have proper arch supports which allow you to wear regular (not custom) shoes. Some can benefit from phase 4 orthotics, sold online or have something similar made by a podiatrist. Wide shoes are available through many vendors by special order.