We just got married and we've been trying to have sex,but it's so painful for me as it's about my 1st time.it's been 3 attempts now.pls what can we do?

Nervousness...: The 1st time having intercourse is often painful, but should not be very painful. There are several reasons why sex can be painful. One of the most common is anxiety & your vagina not lubricated & the vaginal muscles not relaxed. Talk to your new husband, take it slow, gentle & allow yourself to relax & body time to be ready for sex. May consult a HT psychologist. If not the answer need more info.