How do i tell my ob that i want to have a d&c? i'm 10 w preg & have painful fibroids & do not want a child. my birth control failed. (ortho evra)

Hard situation: Kayla, Sorry you are going through this. Are you comfortable with your OB, and know what his/her reaction will be? Are you certain of your decision? If any doubt, get counseling. Planned Parenthood is excellent for this. If you are certain, approach doc immediately. After 12 weeks the procedure is more difficult and slightly more risky. If s/he doesn't do the procedure, get a referral.

See abortion MD: You don't have to tell your present OB anything unless he/she does abortions. If you have decided not to have this child, then see a abortion clinic MD prior to 12 weeks gestation if you can, because the procedure is less complicated.

Fibroids - pregnancy: Most of the fibroid growth occurs in the first trimester, with little if any further increase in size during the second and third trimesters. Most pregnant women with fibroids do not have any complications during pregnancy related to the fibroids. When complications occur, pain is the most common complication. The frequency of pain correlates with increasing fibroid size.

Honesty: You're ob is their to help provide you with the care you need. It's important to be honest and just tell your OB your wishes. Early communication is key