I am a virgin, but yesterday i was playing around with my boyfriend. i gave him oral sex and hand job. i had my pants on all the time. i am not sure if he had cum in his fingers when he fingered me. i took the morning after pill because i was freaking out

Nontraditional sex: 1 egg + 1 sperm cell = possibility of pregnancy. Ejaculation is not required to produce a pregnancy. Pre-ejaculate certainly can contain sperm and should be considered an infectious bodily fluid which can make you pregnant. Exposure is enough if there is a fertile ovum present. Always use a condom for STD prevention I recommend adding another method for birth control. Beware risky activities.

Unlikely: Congratulations on your relationship, and I hope you will cherish the time together. Pregnancy in this situation is very uncommon but can occur; if a man ejaculates in the vulva the risk is quite high even if the hymen is intact. You were wise to use emergency contraception. As mature adults, please do be careful in the future -- there's plenty of safe things you can do that are risk-free.