I lost my virginity we had sex 4 times twice next day used a condom and i haven't showered since i have a little brown discharge and i'm itchy imagirl?

I think your: symptoms would be fairly typical. Of course, you want to review the "rules" for using a condom correctly: use a new one for every act, etc. This results in a good deal of contraception and infection prevention. Depending on where you are in your cycle, a little discharge would not be unexpected. Microtrauma to the vagina could cause some bleeding, then discharge, as well as inflammation/itching.

Symptoms: Brown discharge may be shedding of old blood. Some bleeding is not unexpected after having sexual intercourse for the first time. Itching may be due to irritation from penis, lubricants, condom or spermicide. If you were to develop a white, clumpy, discharge - get checked for possible yeast.