Ocd messing up loving relationship any ideas how to fix it previous relationship love being pulled by ocd making life hard and making relationship har?

Get in therapy: It sounds like these symptoms are ongoing and interfering with your life, but they are quite treatable. You haven't provided a lot of info, but it almost sounds like the symptoms increase in response to being in a relationship? If so, it could be that the OCD is an expression of some emotion -- such as fear, inadequacy, resentment, or anger.