I'm a virgin and i recently almost did "it" but when he fingered me, he said it slid right in. that i didntfeel like a virgin. iwasnt tight. is it bad?

Hard to say: Some women are born with no hymen, a limited wide shelf like hymen or lose it through childhood trauma, self sex, or other event. The boy's response either shows he has had a lot of experience, or is trying to overcome your resistance by implying you've done it before,why exclude him? Only you know your status. You need to think through the issue.This should be shared,not given or taken.

Virginity: Virginity refers to the state before first sexual intercourse in males and females. Presence of intact or broken hymen does not necessarily indicate virginity or lack of virginity. The hymen can be broken without having sex.