When 8 have sex with my wife i tend to ejacualate much faster is there a way you can help me ?

Creams and learning: There are special creams like Detane which contains benzocaine and may delay ejaculation. A better option is sensate focusing: first week- only gentle kissing and touching- have partner use "squeeze technique, firmly pressing the head on the penis with thumb and forefinger before you cum. Seconding week- naked touching to the point of "almost touching, - slow intercourse and - continue squeeze .

It is not unusual: for men, especially young men, to quickly come to climax when engaging with a partner. Sometimes this quickness leads to premature ejaculation, defined as "ejaculating sooner than he or his partner would like." Treatment is usually behavioral, including the "pause-squeeze" technique, topical anesthetics, oral medications, counseling. Ask you doctor to refer you to someone who can help.

Wear condoms.: My first advice would be to use a condom that deadens some amount of the sensation.

Premature: Ejaculation is sometimes called ill-timed ejaculation. It is a subjective evaluation. You may orgasm too quickly and not satisfy your partner. If you have concerns you can see your doc or a licensed sex therapist. It is not an illness. Peace and good health.