I recently lost my virginity and since i've been feeling emotional and stressed. i feel fat and i'm sore as well. im also pretty worried since we did it twice once with a condom and again without it the second time we did it without the condom he pulled o

Lots of issues: There's a lot going on here: Low self esteem. Boys. Body image. Avoidance of pregnancy. Odds are, many of your issues are magnified because you have no one to discuss them with. Wish HealthTap could help, but you need more than 10 seconds of counseling! Please seek the guidance of a trusted older friend or a counseling service, at school, church, or in your community.

Need more info: How long ago did you have sex? If the sex was more than three weeks ago and you missed your period, do a home pregnancy test. If the sex was only a few days ago, it would be too soon to test. If the soreness persists beyond a couple of days, you may need to be examined for herpes. It is not not feasible to address your emotional issues in this forum and you should seek counseling. If you do not wish to be pregnant, use contraception all the time, every time. You may consider implanted contraceptive. Practice safe sex. Get HPV vaccine.