Can i have meningitis? i'm scared. my neck is stiff, i have a fever, cough, stuffy nose, my ears hurt like they are about to explode

See PCP: You have an upper respiratory tract infection, but fever, headache and stiff neck requires immediate attention by the physician to rule out meningitis, I would advice to see your doctor as soon as possible. Other conditions can cause stiff neck too that need to be check by MD.

Sounds viral: Your symptoms are consistent with a viral illness. See your doctor for evaluation and treatment.