Penis sore between using baby wipes to clean and protected sex it's red the tip it keeps switch places anxiety?

Anxiety seems likely: I doubt baby wipes would do this, but if you think it's possible, stop using them. As you suggest yourself, anxiety indeed is often the explanation for what seems to be a slightly red penis tip, without other obvious symptoms like painful urination, open sores, or discharge from the penis. And in my experience, when someone suspects his or her own symptoms are anxiety, usually s/he is correct.