My cervix is low and dailated 2cm and uncomfortable and am not pregnant i had early abortion last month after my third try of iui?

Doesnt make sense: Honestly that does not make sense. The cervix will not be dilated in a nor pregnant person. The position of the cervix as well as the way it feels on examination in a nonpregnant person is not particularly meaningful or useful. I suggest scheduling a visit for a pelvic exam and you can show the doctor what it is you are feeling and have your findings confirmed.