What are some things i can work on personally that will help me to improve my relationships?

Reality Feedback.: If you have relationship problems you can start with the scarey task of asking your friends for candid feedback about areas that bother them. If you hear the same type of input from different people, then you can use that reality feedback to determine what issues you would benefit from working on. Take care.

Hard lessions: The most difficult and important lession that i had to learn is that relationships are more important than being right. Everybody asks the question you've framed, and spends decades making mistakes -- and if you're clever, learning. Try to figure out what people want and give it to them. Nobody owes you love. Expect ingratitude. Let others know you've recognized the things they're rightly proud of.