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My girlfriend of 10 mos is having a secret lesbian relationship, what do i do?
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Talk: Tell her how you feel, & focus on yourself and your feelings or she may become defensive or just shut down. You may feel rejected or unwanted. Honesty is essential to any intimate relationship. Ask her if everything is ok. Maybe she is depressed or is not attracted to you. Keep an open line of communication during good and bad times. You deserve to be with an honest person.
Answered 10/3/2016
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Decide and talk: Decide if you want a monogamous or non-monogamous (open) relationship. Open relationships do not work for everyone. But secret relationships are a no no either way. Trust and faith are important no matter what type of relationship you are in. And talk to her to decide what is best.
Answered 10/3/2016
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Talk to her: You can either talk to her about it or ignore it, she is still with you, isn't she?
Answered 10/3/2016
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