How does one overcome domestic violence/abuse?

Talk to a : Domestic violence shelter or a mental health professional with experience treating domestic violence. Counseling is very effective and very important in overcoming the emotional damage that violence/abuse creates. A person can become a strong, healthy survivor with the right counseling.

Counseling: Whether you are still in the situation or have left it, therapy will be helpful. Most insurance companies will now cove it, as well. If you have children, they may need counseling, as well. An evaluation by a psychologist and an md will help you determine what you may need. There are self-help materials, but talking to someone in person is best, especially if there are safety issues.