My wisdom teeth cause pain and swelling almost every two months, what should i do? i do not want to take them out.

NO choice: You may have no choice, pain may be from infection , swelling, or pressure as the teeth try to erupt. You should see yor dentist to be evaluated before you. Have a serious issue.

Wisdom teeth: If your wisdom teeth are infected which is why you ate experiencing discomfort than it is recommended to extract them as soon as possible.

Discuss risks: You should discuss risk and benefits with you dentist. I assume you are afraid of something, schedule a consult with your doc, and ask about sleep/sedation dentistry. It not going to get any easier as you age. And you don't want to be taking antibiotics over and over again.

Why?: Repeat infections can become life threatening whole body sepsis effecting and damaging nearly all your major organs, heart, kidneys, brain and liver. If fear is your main concern, sleep IV sedation will insure you will not remember anything from the procedure. Do it!