I have depression right now and i get this every so often & it lasts 2- 3 days. then i'm in. whiny moods with my husband. he doesn't know what 2 do?

Periodic depression: If depression is recurrent enough in your life that you're bothered by it, you deserve a workup and possible treatment. I don't know if the age on your question is accurate, but if this comes in timing with premenstrual periods it could be pms or pmdd -- both treatable. You can start with your family physician, who may also want you to see psychiatrist. Good luck to you (and your husband too).