I need my life to change but i need to work too?

Clarify: I think, nishan, that everybody reading or writing here could say the same! some of the hardest work we do isn't at our jobs, but on ourselves. Career & people skills must be paramount; things as basic as time management and personal organization, or learning not to criticize others much or emancipating from a difficult family of origin are all life-changers that may be within your reach.