Having trouble going for a bowel movement because it hurts my stool isnt hard but i bleed everytime and it is extremely sore to wipe afterwards?

Anal fissure: although you need an examination to confirm the diagnosis, you are describing classic symptoms for an anal fissure. It can often be treated conservatively by dietary modification. Generally it's recommended that you have a high-fiber diet with adequate water hydration. After bowel movements try shower instead of wiping to prevent further trauma. Surgery for Botox only if this management fails