I feel the urge to urinate especially when sitting or lying down. it doesn't feel the same as a uti. it comes and goes every other month or so. ?

Urge to urinate: The urge to urinate can represent an inflammation of the urethra or bladder, caused by an infection, an allergy to soap or other vaginal preparation, or by a bladder irritant such as alcohol, caffeine, carbonated drink. I would seek consultation from your healthcare provider or from a urologist who specializes in disorders of the urinary tract. It can be diagnosed and treated.