My bf and i tried monday for a baby, he came a lot i was super sick to my stomach. today i woke up bleeding&cramping but it's too soon for a test?

Too soon: Do you mean Monday, two days ago? Yes, it's WAY to soon to detect a pregnancy that might have started then. If you might be pregnant from a previous sexual exposure, that's a different question. If you're having menstrual bleeding now, it's highly unlikely you got pregnant two days ago. This gives you time to consider if you want your child to have a baby daddy or a father.