How i lose my verginty without pain?

Move at YOUR pace: Pain may mean rapid stretching, little lubrication, or poor penis position. Pain plus bleeding means little tears. If a woman has a healthy vulva, vagina, and hymen; if she is very stretchy; if she is happy and relaxed with lots of natural lubrication; if a guy enters at a good angle, at the right spot; if he moves with gentler motions until she is well-lubricated; one may avoid pain and bleeding.