Spider bit my eye lid and i have a big hedache now my bite is on my eye lid and is swollen i have pain on my neck but its mostly the headache?

Did someone see the: spider? I would get this checked now. Seek medical care asap if you think a spider bit you & you have fever, severe pain (can be felt at bite site & possibly chest, back or abdomen); abdominal cramping /rigidness or ulceration of skin at site. You may need a tetanus shot (if you don't know when your last shot was or it has been > 10 years). Also medical care if you develop signs of secondary >

See a DR: What makes you think it is caused by a venomous spider?This is very unlikely. Begin with a better diagnosis.