No period for 2 months. spotting (not normal for me) for over a week w/ pms. not pregnant, lgbt. not really stressed. should i see a dr or just relax?

Get seen...: If you are definitely sure this is not pregnancy there are a few reasons that can be causing this problem: vaginal infections, you skipped ovulation, stress, abrupt weight loss, hormonal imbalances. It would be a good idea to see a GYN provider in order to get a formal evaluation and tests as needed.

Hard to tell: It's hard to say without knowing your age and other medical history or meds you are on. If you are concerned, and this is a significant change for you, I would call your doctor.