A member asked:

My boyfriend and i have only had sex like 3 times. but i bleed and feel a lot of pain. idk if i'm just bad at sex or if this is a problem? advice?

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Dr. Lynne Weixel answered

Specializes in Clinical Psychology

You're new at it: Thant's not the same as bad. It can take people (especially women) lots of foreplay preparation to moisturize and relax your genitals. Playful petting, licking, kissing and gentle probing with moistened fingers can 'ready' the vagina. Don't try a width that's too thick (condomed erect penis) until you loosen up from foreplay. Try a dab of KY-gel on/in/around the area too. Beginners take practice.

Answered 9/28/2014

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