Ok so i need some help advice my boyfriend and i don t have sex but he does finger me and i occasionally bleed sometimes the bleeding is heavier than other times but usually it s just spotting and sometimes the bleeding will last a few hours to a whole d

Small tear?: If you have never had sex, then you probably are having small tears of your hymen. The hymen will stretch or tear when you have sex, and you will bleed the first couple of times. Many women don't have any bleeding because their hymen is either not there or has torn when they were younger through their regular activities. See a doctor to get checked to know for sure what is going on.