When making love and i have an orgams i wet the bed why?

Bladder: Your bladder may have been too full or there may be weakness present.

Relaxed muscles: sometimes when having sex you body can relax the bladder neck and you can wet the bed Usually more common after having babies and the bladder neck is weaker but definitely it can happen and it does not happen all the time. Sometimes an urologist can help with surgery or medications to help you

Stress incontinence: Incontinence with coughing, laughing, (or even orgasms) is called stress incontinence. It is usually due to weakness of the pelvic floor muscles. Google kiegel exercises and do them three times daily, and your symptoms may improve. Hope this helps!

Need more info: If you are having bladder problems then it is urine. Often times honey moon cystitis occurs when the penis knocks the urethra and you may leak as well as have urgency frequency or dysuria. Otherwise it may be seamon leaking from your partner's penis. Always urinate prior to sex to make sure you have emptied your bladder.