After losing my virginity i didn't bleed, does that mean that i was never a virgin or does that mean i didn't lose my virginity?

Hymen: Most women by your age no longer have an intact hymen and may not bleed the first couple times they have sex like women with an intact hymen. That's not a bad thing and certainly bleeding after sex isn't some kind of badge of courage. If this was your first time for sexual intercourse then yes you lost your virginity.

Virginity : One loses their virginity when you have sex for the first time. Bleeding is irrelevant. Bleeding occurs when the hymenal ring gets torn. This varies from person to person. It many it does not happen at all

You are not a virgin: If you have had sexual intercourse, you are no longer a virgin... but you were before you had sex. The fact that you did not bleed is a completely different thing. That has to do with your hymen, which is a small, fleshy piece of tissue found at the entrance of the vagina. Some hymens tear causing bleeding, while some stretch and does not cause bleeding... quite possibly your situation.