Can "special" condoms, such as fire and ice, cause the female to be nauseous after sex?

Yes: You may have sensitivities to additive ingredients in the condoms that cause our symptoms. It may also be a latex sensitivity, so make sure you are trying latex-free as well. There is really no way to test for these sensitivities except trial and error, so make notes as to which ones bother you and avoid them.

Prob not the condom: Information suggests a wide variety of reactions, both male and female, to the Fire and Ice condom, and it seems to be very polarized: either people love them or hate them. Most of the haters complain of burning and skin irritation, not nausea. Condom use very unlikely to cause nausea unless some chemical associated with it was ingested/taken in orally!