Will my r enlarged andeiod make my right neck feel bigger when i touch around my tonsil wall. i don't want surgery what can i do. will it cont. grow?

Enlarged adenoid: Your adenoids are located behind your nose, and so should not make your neck feel bigger. It is difficult to say if it will continue to get bigger- Unfortunately there isn't much you can do to make it bigger or smaller. The main reasons you would need surgery for this are chronic recurrent sinus infections and sleep apnea. If you don't have either of these conditions, you don't need surgery.