Why am i labeled as unhappy for not wanting to conform to what other's view as "normal". what's wrong with avoiding people? most are mean and immature

Am I unhappy: Enjoying to do solo activities does not mean one is unhappy. If one had been social but now is more withdrawn and isolative to the point that it is interfering with their daily functioning and relationships with others then this could be a symptom of a Depressive Disorder, there are other symptoms such as problems with sleep, appetite, energy, concentration and mood that would be affected also.