Im having some lower back and side pain ,sometime i have trouble empiting my bladder all the way ,so i second trip is needed or sometimes when i pee

Here are some ...: What you described suggests your voiding symptoms have quietly emerged over many years so you might have increasingly & more often felt so as years pass by. Did backache add more problem? May be. To sort out what have been happening to you, see urologist for analyzing detailed symptoms & their sequence of event timely, conducting physicals, testing UA / residual urine, etc. so to deduce Dx for Rx.