Does one have to wean themselves off from a testosterone patch with andoderm in it? please, need some answers?

No: You do not need to wean off testosterone medications. If you have been prescribed Androderm, presumably you've been diagnosed with hypogonadism or low testosterone. When you stop the androderm, your testosterone level will likely revert back to its level prior to the medication, or lower. Consider talking with your physician about a different testosterone preparation; there are many.