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What to do if i do not know if i'm gay or straight?

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What do you like?: Most people enjoy the natural beauty and attributes of both sexes, and despite all the rhetoric, my own conversations have satisfied me that orientation is a continuum and that turn-ons are many, complicated, and incomprehensible. Why not simply embrace whoever you feel you are, advocate tolerance and acceptance for everybody regardless of orientation, and if you find love, be happy.

Answered 2/26/2016

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Dr. Robert Killian answered

Specializes in General Practice

It is okay: It is not necessary to figure this all out at once. But, it is time to get some experience. You may want to find a good therapist. You may want to meet people who are gay and to get some real time relationships with these new friends. Here is a link to find gay or gay friendly doctors: http://www.glma.org. I often recommend reading books to help. "Loving Someone Gay" by Don Clark is a good start.

Answered 4/7/2017

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