A member asked:

Gf agreed to have sex, but's virgin. i went as slow as possible by using pinky finger first (lubed), but less than 1 cm in, she said it was very painful, and couldn't breath. how can we overcome this?

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See comment: Since i don't know the circumstances ; her background, she may not be ready for sex..She may not be naturally lubricated, there may be a guilt element..She may have a "smaller than usual vagina with time things will improve.....In some girls the hymen is tighter and tougher..Perhaps a visit to a gynecologist would shed light on the issue.

Answered 2/9/2014

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Exam: I would suggest beginning with an exam to be sure there is not an anatomic problem then prolonged fondling and foreplay to assure arousal. Hope this helps.

Answered 12/4/2014

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