Well, you can't: I will assume you have asked him, point=blank, if he is using. If you haven't, that would be my first consideration. Family counseling, with a therapist to mediate between the two of you, is an option, which you can suggest because there are trust issues. I would also suggest attending some Alanon meetings, and finding one or two of them that work for you. Alanon is a self-help program for family
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