Please let me know if there is a holistic cure for otitis media?

Holistic approach: Breathing in the vapors of warm lavender oil may help.

Probably: Much of treatment for pain and inflammation is non pharmaceutical ( positive thinking, exercise, relaxation, heat, massage, etc). And the infection may resolve without abx. But if getting worse abandon the unproven methods and go with what has been shown to work Check the website : http://nccih.nih.org to see what really works and what is bogus.