For over 2 weeks now my gums and teeth have been hurting. it hurts up into my ear and gives me headaches. gums are white now. whats going on with me?

Infection?: It sounds like you have some kind of bacterial infection. These things are frequently due to pretty bad oral hygiene conditions. See a dentist.

Gingivitis/perio. ?: That could be gingivitis or even the more sever form periodontitis woth is inflammation of the tissues surrounding the teeth including , gums, ligaments and bone, see adventist asap for treatment options.

Dental Abscess: If not treated, a serious dental abscess can eventually kill. The infection may spread to your jaw, cheeks, sinus and to other areas of your head and neck. See any dentist for examination, x-rays and treatment.